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New to Sex Toys? These Intuitive Vibrators Are Perfect for Beginners

If you’re looking for a vibrator that can do it all, the Lovense Dolce should be at the top of your list. Whether you’re using it on your own or as a couple, the Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Remote Control Egg will make your next session even more intense. Now that we’ve popped your cherry, let’s dive headfirst into the world of interactive self-pleasure. Another feature that makes it an attractive out-of-town option is that it’s compact (smaller than your average pair of sunglasses) and has a locking mechanism to prevent embarrassing “where’s that coming from?

However, we did not find its vibrations to be as powerful as those of the Magic Wand Rechargeable, and the vibrations are strong all through the handle, making this toy unpleasant to hold for an extended period of time. The Dame Aer is the first suction vibrator that we’ve liked more than toys from Womanizer, the brand that pioneered similar oral-sex-simulating tech. Our testers also raved that it charges quickly, holds a charge for a long time, and is super easy to clean thanks to its all-in-one waterproof silicone design.

To help you on you find the best vibrator for your needs , we’ve rounded up the sex toys that will open up new avenues to a magical O-town. And since there’s no direct contact with your clitoris like other vibrators, you don’t get over-sensitive, which is great if you’re someone who likes longer sessions. It’s even slim enough to slip between you and your partner during sex for some super intense stimulation. The Satisfyer Pro 2 has 11 different speeds and an easy-to-access control panel on the handle, so it’s easy to start off slow and cycle up into the more intense settings as you play.

Each of these plugs is a star in its own right, but I find myself using the smallest size the most. At 4-inches of insertable length, it’s more small-medium in my book—but the narrow design makes it great for anal beginners. Masturbation is a natural part of sexual wellness that relieves tension and allows you to experience pleasure on your own.

Made from soft silicone, it has five speeds and six patterns for users to enjoy, with most of our testers saying it helped them achieve a stronger orgasm more quickly. To find the top performers vibrators, our Good Housekeeping Institute testing panel of 123 women put a range of models to the test. While I easily had sex with my partner during the aforementioned play party, sitting on top of an intensely vibrating machine in front of people I didn’t know felt too exposed for me, for some reason. However, the other people I’d seen trying it out always looked like they’d immensely enjoyed it. That’s why when the opportunity arose for me to try the Motorbunny Buck in my own home, I was stoked.

The Hot Octopuss Pulse II is billed as the world’s first “guybrator”, and claims to be fun to use flaccid or erect. I have to admit that I was exceedingly skeptical when I first heard about this product, but my trusted male reviewer helped me realize that this could be a very fun purchase for some guys. The Greedy Girl is one of Lovehoney’s best-selling toys, with a 4.6 star rating from more than 1800 reviews. If you are a size queen who likes deep penetration stimulating your G-spot and beyond, then the Big Boss is for you. True to its name, it measures in at 9.25 inches long (with roughly 6.5 inches of insertable length) and has a big girth of 1.06 to 1.77 inches. It provides that very full feeling and puts nice pressure on the G-spot.

So whatever mood you’re in… there’s a toy on this list that will satisfy you. Because they offer a whole new world of possibilities when it comes to enjoying our sexuality. You’ll also want to make sure that you have a solid Bluetooth connection—after all, you don’t want the toy losing power in the middle of… well, you know. That means you can give your partner a little extra stimulation even when you’re not in the same room (or even the same country). With its powerful motor, it packs a punch that other wand massagers simply can’t match. And with its male and female attachments, it opens up a whole world of new possibilities.

You can also use the band to adjust the tightness just how you like it. It focuses deep, strong vibrations right onto your frenulum and the surrounding area, no stroking or thrusting required. As with other Lovense toys, this one can be controlled via the well-designed Lovense app, so you can create your own vibration patterns, sync up the vibrations with music, or even let a far-away partner take control of the toy. Are willing to get a little adventurous with your first foray into the land of sex toys?

Satisfyer claims that the toy can operate for up to two hours after three hours of charge time, but the actual time may vary depending on the strength at which you use the toy. We recommend periodically charging the toy to preserve its longevity, rather than allowing the battery to run down completely. Testers reported that the long handle makes the Magic Wand comfortable to hold for long periods of time without hand cramping or numbness. The switch sits high enough on the handle that testers were unlikely to switch it off accidentally during use (which was an issue with some of the smaller rechargeable models). We’ve focused on toys that will work well for most people, including beginners.

“Honestly, the quietest toys are going to be marketed as quiet,” says Gigi Engle, a certified sex and relationship psychotherapist and resident intimacy expert at dating app, 3Fun. “With that being said, you’re going to want to look for something smaller that has a smaller motor.” Engle explains that the smaller the motor, the quieter the toy. “You’re going to have better luck with palm, finger, and bullet vibrators. These toys are basically silent, which can be a great choice,” Engle adds. Wands are super versatile, with long handles and large heads that make them easy to use in different solo or partnered positions.